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Hey everyone! I’m Felipe, and I’m so happy to have you here on the channel. If you’re new here, welcome! This is a space where we talk about personal development, self-discovery, and everything that can help us live a more balanced and meaningful life. I’m really glad you found your way here, and I hope this content inspires you.
Today, I want to talk about something I believe a lot of us deal with… the desire for instant results, or what I like to call the ‘now syndrome.’ We live at such a fast pace that we end up believing everything should happen immediately. Who hasn’t been there? We want things to be resolved in the blink of an eye, whether it’s personal projects, work, or even relationships.
How many times have you caught yourself thinking, ‘Why isn’t this done yet?’ or ‘Why hasn’t this person replied already?’ I’ve been there many times and know just how exhausting that anxiety can be.
Today, I want to share a bit about how this rush can end up harming us if we don’t learn to balance it. Let’s explore together how the desire for immediacy can affect our projects, our relationships, and even our inner peace.
If you’ve dealt with this feeling of needing things right away, write ‘Me too!’ in the comments. Let’s share our experiences and learn together.
2. Why Are We So Impatient?
Let’s take a step back and understand why we feel this constant need to rush. We live in a world where everything seems to be at the click of a button. Social media, online shopping, instant messaging… everything is right there when we want it, right?
Here’s an example of how it affects us. Think about when you make an online purchase and expect it to arrive the same day. Or when you send a message and keep looking at your phone, waiting for an immediate reply. It may seem small, but these little experiences end up training our minds to expect everything to happen instantly.
But when we bring this urgency into our dreams, projects, and relationships, we can end up feeling frustrated and anxious. Because, let’s be honest… not everything in real life is that quick.
If you’ve ever felt that anxiety when something takes longer than expected, give this article a like to let us know you’re not alone!
3. When Immediate Action Can Be Positive
It’s important to remember that immediacy isn’t always a bad thing. In certain situations, it can actually be helpful. When you master something, when you have experience in a certain field and need to make quick decisions, acting immediately can be an advantage. In high-pressure situations, this quickness is a skill.
But this only applies when you already know what you’re doing. For most projects—especially those that require learning, creativity, and patience—immediacy can be more of an obstacle than a help.
4. Negative Effects of Immediacy on Projects
Now let’s talk about projects. When we expect quick results, we often forget to appreciate the process. Every project—big or small—needs time, it needs steps. You can’t skip straight to the end, right?
Imagine you want to launch a business or learn a new skill. If you expect everything to work out right away, you’re likely to get frustrated. But if you remind yourself that each small accomplishment is part of the journey, everything feels lighter.
Negative Effect:
When we’re impatient, we risk skipping steps and overlooking important details. The final quality might be compromised. And in the end, the frustration only increases when we realize things aren’t turning out as we hoped.
If you also want to learn to appreciate each step, comment ‘I choose the journey!’ Let’s reinforce the importance of every step together.
5. Negative Effects of Immediacy on Relationships
Now let’s talk about how immediacy can impact our relationships. Often, we want to resolve everything right away. We want the other person to reply fast, to understand everything immediately, or for the connection to evolve quickly.
Reflective Example:
Let’s say you’ve started a new relationship, whether it’s a friendship or something more. If you expect the connection to be deep right from the start, you might end up frustrated and even put pressure on the other person.
Negative Effect:
The truth is, in relationships, trust and intimacy need time. Rushing can create a barrier, making the other person feel pressured. And instead of bringing people closer, it can actually push them away.
Have you ever felt that urge to have everything right away in a relationship? Share your experience in the comments—I’d love to know!
6. How to Balance Immediacy: Practices to Develop Patience
So, how can we learn to control this urge and develop more patience? Here are some practices that have helped me find that balance.
Practice #1: Appreciate Small Wins First tip: appreciate each small win. Instead of focusing only on the end result, try to value each step along the way. This helps remind you that everything takes time.
Example:
If you’re working on a long project, recognize each milestone. No matter how small it seems, each step brings you closer to the goal.
Practice #2: Cultivate Patience in Small Moments Try practicing patience in everyday situations, like when you’re in a line or waiting for something. It’s in these small moments that you can train your mind to be calmer.
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Try the Patience Training Journal to document your progress and develop mindfulness.
Practice #3: Review Your Goals Regularly A powerful practice is to review your goals every morning and night. This helps you remember you’re on the right path and that each step matters.
Practice #4: Keep a Reflection Journal Writing can be a great way to process what you’re feeling. Write down the moments when impatience got in your way, or when you managed to wait. This way, you’ll notice your patterns and grow.
Which of these practices do you think will work best for you? Let me know in the comments!
7. Conclusion
Remembering that not everything needs to happen right now is a gift we can give ourselves. It’s a way to find peace in a world that’s always in a rush. When we learn to appreciate the process, we can build stronger things and more meaningful relationships.
So, the next time you feel that rush hitting, remember: every step has its value, every step brings you closer to what you’re looking for. The journey is what makes the destination so special.
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Discover why the need for instant results can sabotage your projects and relationships. Learn how to balance immediacy with patience, appreciate the journey, and build lasting success.
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